
In Cinderella's version of the Grimm Brothers, there is no Fairy Godmother. Cinderella's wishes do come true, but not through some magical fairy, but rather from a hazelnut tree growing on her mother's grave. Cinderella would walk towards the tree, would ask for a wish she deeply desires, and all of a sudden a white bird would come down out of nowhere, carrying every single thing she needs to fulfill her heart's desire. A magical wish-fulfilling tree... sounds odd, does it not?
Magical thinking is about linking one’s inner personal experience with the external physical world. “I asked the tree from my mother’s grave for beautiful clothes to wear to the ball, and he gave them to me!”... That an example of what I’m trying to say. It doesn’t make much sense... Well, actually it could have it.
In the 20th century, Freud did a small study about this. He argued that there are two fundamental forms of thought: primary and secondary process. The primary process is the one related to the pleasure principle, what drives one’s instincts and seeks immediate gratification of all needs, wants, and desires. The secondary process is like rational thought: it connects one's instincts with reality, and based on that, provides rational analysis that allows the person to adjust to the environment.
Magical thinking is a form of primary process. So, Cinderella knew what her instincts were, but couldn’t relate them to reality... Can you?
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